PROSSER - "A typical Wednesday," said Victoria LaMar. "The roofer says it will cost $1,200 to fix the roof, but you have only $64 to last until pay day." She went on to describe the other distractions of the moment, including the phone ringing, the children playing and food needing attention on the stove. LaMar, a volunteer with Stonecroft Ministries, was the featured speaker at the Lower Valley Christian Women's Connection monthly luncheon at the Barn Restaurant in Prosser Tuesday. She spoke about the importance of keeping God in mind during the difficult times of raising children and keeping a home. LaMar described her life as "organized chaos" while her children were growing up. "My life has been up a mountain, down a hill, around a curve, down a hole and stuck in a sand pit," she told the group. She told the group how her husband lost his job when their first child was only three months old. "I know about not having money," she said. "I know about taking Christmas presents back to the store." She said the family lived on leftover soup, an idea from an aunt. As food was left from meals, even a teaspoon or two was put in a to jar and when the jar was full, a little bit of water and a soup was born. She also said casserole surprise was a common meal, leading her son to try to figure out what meat might be in the casserole each night. She said that when times were toughest she would pray for a little money. The next day the family might receive an insurance check they weren't expecting, or a neighbor might bring over $50 for something purchased in the past. "We always made it through," she said. "God helped us."